Anyone who has taken the bus more than a few times has probably encountered obscenity-spewing, rough-housing teens who are either unaware that they're annoying others or don't care that they are. In some cases, they seem to enjoy the discomfort of fellow passengers.
Generally, they are ignored. Or, more accurately, put up with. Few people riding the bus want to take the risk of confronting them. Although the odds that a rebuke will lead to a physical conflict are relatively small, the reward is not great enough to justify the risk. Or is it?
Are these unruly teens actually dangerous? Or have we been brainwashed into believing that they are? I suspect that they're less dangerous than they appear, but do you want to be proven wrong in close quarters with fellow passengers who likely will not back you up?
Two men recently wrote about disturbing experiences on the bus involving teenagers. One of them described his nemesis as "the public rapper." The other described his three foes as "no older than 15, hissing, snarling... a general hindrance for everyone going about their everyday life."
The two men responded differently. The first, who had his 2-year-old daughter with him, asked the rapper to "watch your language, please." The other sat silently as the teens "menacingly taunted the poor bus driver."
You can't judge either of them for their actions, can you? The situations were quite different. Again, I suspect that we exaggerate the danger of unruly teenagers. But you only have to be wrong once to regret your decision for a long time.
Until next time.
Steve
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